Don't fret over your past romances.
If you broke up, you broke up.
Each time you think you might be able to get back togtether and reconnect makes it exponentially harder and harder to let go.
The bond keeps recementing and torturing you. You don't want that to happen. I know you want to relive the good memories of the past, and you're scared about an uncertain future.
You're going to be fine, you will pull out of this.Right?
It's not the end of the world folks. As much as we want it to be!
You can find a new man, a better man. You need to find a good man who won't abandon you.
There are really no short cuts or magic cures in the process of detaching from the partner you loved. If it's worse than bad, you'll want to consider moving somewhere else if you have the money or credit to handle it. Spend time to cry, talk to your friends and grieve your loss in order to let go and after a few months you can begin to find a new man. You need to learn to be a stronger woman. And be a better one. You deserve better.
I know you want to relive the happy memories of the past, and you're scared about an uncertain future. But each time you think you might be able to get him back and reconnect with him it makes it more difficult to let go.
In life there's a start and an end to everything. What we start, we must one day end. It is the fact of life.